Buddhist views on dating
In birth control what is done is to prevent the coming into being of an existence.
The Buddha further advises old men not to have young wives as the old and young are unlikely to be compatible, which can create undue problems, disharmony and downfall (Parabhava Sutta).It is not laid down anywhere that Buddhists must produce children or regulate the number of children that they produce.Buddhism allows each individual the freedom to decide for himself all the issues pertaining to marriage.Then for some reason or other, she wants to do away with this being in her.So she begins to search for an abortionist to do the job and in this way, the third condition is fulfilled.Marriage plays a very important part in this strong web of relationships of giving support and protection.
A good marriage should grow and develop gradually from understanding and not impulse, from true loyalty and not just sheer indulgence.
It might be asked why Buddhist monks do not marry, since there are no laws for or against marriage.
The reason is obviously that to be of service to mankind, the monks have chosen a way of life which includes celibacy.
They are at liberty to use any of the old or modern measures to prevent conception.
Those who object to birth control by saying that it is against God's law to practise it, must realize that their concept regarding this issue is not reasonable.
The Buddhist views on marriage are very liberal: in Buddhism, marriage is regarded entirely as personal and individual concern, and not as a religious duty.